Hey Samantha,

Thanks for the reply it sounds like you are going through the same feelings i am. I do have to tell you that I have not seen my ex since january. That is when I found out that she had started sleeping with the guy she had cheated on me with about 6 months earlier. It hurt me really bad because after 4 yrs it only took two weeks after the break up for her to start sleeping with this guy. I wanted me and her to be friends after the break up but I just can't see her yet. I have talked to her a few times but have not seen her. I would suggest that if you are having a hard time when you see your ex that you should try not to see him it really does help, you will still think about him every once in awhile but not as often. Another thing I have learned is that you should always go with your gut instinct on how you feel about somethin because 99% of the time so if your gut feeling says he is stringing you along you should stop seeing him because it is probably true. hope some of this helps and thanks again for the advice.