Thanks a lot for your replies...

The major question that I am asking myself now is ----

Is my same sex attraction driven purely by my insecurities and my background? and

if I get rid of my insecurities, start feeling more confident as a man, internalize the belief that "I WILL HAVE CHILDREN IN FUTURE" emotionally and intellectually, and get a girl friend, is it possible that my same sex desire might actually decrease/ become irrelevant, or at the very least, reduce the confusion in my mind?

Thanks!