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Old Jan 02, 2012, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by My kids are cool View Post
geez, what happens in touch therapy? Is it what the name implies, and the T TOUCHES YOU? I am ok with my T touching me in very limited ways -- hug, pat on the back. I was a little less ok when he put his hand on my knee one time. I would FREAK OUT if a female T tried to touch me. My husband's T touched him in front of me once and I had a full-on freak out. Cowering in a corner on the couch, panicked.
Hi I'm sorry I didn't convey what happened properly. The T showed me where I need to touch certain pressure points on my body but didn't actually touch me (acupressure). Pretty much EMDR.

I found it to be effective in bringing things up to the surface while at the same time it felt overwhelming and scary at the same time. As I got close to getting/feeling an emotion I would shut down. Kind of like hitting an emotional brick wall. Getting so close but then everything shuts down.

Hope my description makes it a little more clear.
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