Wow, I can't imagine how that must feel for you. I wish there was something I could do to help you. All I can say is, I hope you figure this out. I know things like this can get really weird and hard to deal with. Hang in there. I know that people will talk, they will treat you like dirt sometimes, and they can be b****es, and it hurts, but in the end, NOBODY should be able to tell you who you are. Not your dad, not the kids at school, nobody. Only you are allowed to decide that. Good luck with it all.