i use humor a lot. it is a huge part of who i am. my t does also...for me to have a t who did not use it would not work for me...we don't sit & laugh our fool heads off but we do share funny stories, moments...

we are the same age & altho we both live in a different state now we both grew up in the same area..& have many of the same likes & dislikes..so there is much to joke about.

humor is important...i find at times it is easier for me to get my point across using it than by just blurting things out.

we do have serious focused sessions too...some that leave you wrung out & exhausted. don't get me wrong...but both my t & i have agreed that from the initial conversation we knew we could work together because our personalities meshed.