I feel kinda stalker ish by saying this, but one way to tell if someone has signed in or loaded PC up and when the last time was is to go into their profile and see where it says when they were last seen, and where... under their profile pic.

Melissa, we're here for you if you feel like talking!
If I had a car I'd come visit you if you would want that too... I'm only a state down from MI now.. I live in the southern part of Indiana..
I also know what its like to be somewhere you dont wanna be.. and know exactly where you do wanna be and cant get there... I wrote poems about it and chatted with my friends via internet when I could.. and through snail mail... and day dreamed away with my plans on how i was going to get back to TX.. I even did constant reasearch on how i was going to plan my trip back.. which was the cheapest route, how i was planning on saving up money, and how long that might take me to save up that money...
... To my dismay, I went back to TX... and everyone and every place had changed since when I left.. they all moved on with their lives.. while I was still stuck at where I was when i moved from TX... .. now i'm stuck in between and im left going "where the hell do i belong!?" ..
Ironically, one of my best friends from Texas, moved her junior high school year.. She was born in MI and moved to TX.