that makes sense but why just completely ignore me? i mean if she didnt talk to me for a few days and then said hey sorry i havent talked to you lately i had some family stuff or i was out with friends i could understand. but she doesnt even do that. she wont talk to me and ill eventually get her to talk to me and she will act like everything is fine and not even give me a reason why she didnt talk, i just always assume that she didnt want to take her frustration out on me. ive talked to her about this before and she said "just because we arent talking doesnt mean im not thinking about you, talking about you to family and friends, or worrying about your safety" (i tend to be a bit of an adrenaline junkie baha) and i know this is true because i bought her a ring for her birthday and her friends told me how she wouldnt stop showing it off and we once didnt talk for a week, when we finally did she showed me a shirt that she bought to sleep in which was my favorite football team, heck even her sister told me a conversation she had with her about marrying me. so i know shes not cheating or planning on leaving me. she once told me that she gets depressed alot and likes to shut the world out and i understand that completely but is it common to just ignore the one you love for 3 or more days at a time?