(sorry if ive posted the same thing multiple times, my computer is showing that it isnt being posted)
that makes a lot of sense but why just completely ignore me? i mean if she would go a few days without talking to me and say hey sorry i didnt talk to you, i was with friend or i had to deal with a family issue i would completely understand but she doesnt even do that. she wont talk to me and when i finally get her to talk to me she just act like everything is fine and dandy, and i never ask her why because i always assume that she just didnt want to take her frustration from her life out on me or that she didnt want to talk because she told me once that she sometimes gets depressed and shuts the world out. ive talked to her about this before and she said "just because we arent able to talk doesnt mean that im not thinking about you, talking about you or worrying about you."(i tend to be an adrenaline junkie bahaha) which i know is true because of things she does, for example we didnt talk for a few weeks because she was grounded before christmas but on christmas she asked if she could see me and surprised me with a tool bag because i had recently said that i wished i could organize my tools better and she didnt talk to me for a few days and then told me she bought a shirt to sleep in and it was a shirt of my favorite football team, she randomly posts "i love you"s on my facebook wall even though we havent talked in a few days. so i know shes not going anywhere or cheating. but why doesnt she just let me know SOMETHING? anything? just at least make an effort to talk to me instead of me always having to try and figure out whats going on?