Hey everyone, I'm new here. I'm currently in therapy and also doing EMDR. I initially started for the sake of trying to save my marriage. I went because I'm "uncomfortable with sex". VERY uncomfortable. It's ruining my marriage and Ive always been uncomfortable with things of a sexual nature since I can remember. I don't remember the first time I had sex. I was sober but it's almost like I "blanked" out. Without going super in depth and writing a novel I wanted to mention a few things about my dad....I remember him always walking around naked and even up to age 14 I remember him being in the bathroom with me while I was showering getting ready for school and him for work. I dont remember anything physical or weird happening....just that he was in there and I was uncomfortable. I never said anything to him or my mom that it bothered me. He also has always been really flirty with my friends and younger females my age (17-20's)...I'm 29 now. There's just a lot of bothersome things but I have no memories of anything physical. But I have a lot of problems with intimacy and sex. Sometimes when I'm laying with my hubby and he has no shirt on I get a "scent" of my dad and his chest. I have no idea why. But it freaks me out. Is it possible for the bathroom thing and his comments enough to cause me so much discomfort with sexuality? I'm so confused