Ok, so I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now with a woman that I adore and love so much but it seems that we just aren't getting along for very long before something happens and boom we're fighting and bickering about stupid little things. This weekend I bought curtains and when we opened them she shoved me out of the way, when I said something to her she became defensive that I'd accused her of doing something she didn't do and that I'd made it up. I'm not here to point fingers at my partner but i'm so frustrated because I'm not sure how to get the trust and intimacy back into our relationship. I love her so much but my bipolar causes me to over react at times and I see things so differently that it causes problems.

Please help me