(((((((((((((furrypaws))))))))))))

I am so sorry you had a passive aggressive T. That is not right. But it is not your fault. Often we are so used to that behavior because of trauma/abuse that it seems normal and so we don't see it. Other times people are so smooth at doing it that we don't see it. That does not make it our fault.

Life does suck sometimes. I'm sorry you are in such a bad place right now. I hope that your work with your current T is going well.