Humour is very important in my life, my H is hilarious and we laugh every day. My T however, is fairly straight faced and when I've cracked a joke or laughed she doesn't usually join in. As a lot of my jokes are about poking fun at myself I can see that by staying serious she is having no part of making fun of me. I would definately benefit from her making the odd joke or laughing but I don't very often see extremes of emotion from her. This has got me thinking, I might very well bring it up with T on Thurs - from the connectedness p.o.v.