I think it's natural to feel anxious or odd when seeing T outside our sessions but even more so when we see them with another member of their family.

I seen my T with her child a few months ago and it was really hard for me as I think it hit home how she has a life that really has nothing to do with me and I am pretty insignificant in her life (that's how I felt). Even though I pretty much knew that beforehand it was still hard.