I am going back to this T in a few days so I'm trying to think up some stuff to discuss there.

One thing that she has said a number of times is that "we don't have a relationship" and we need to have one, and this is the reason we have made no progress in 4 months.

So what does "having a relationship" entail? (as far as a T goes, I mean). I go in there and we discuss stuff relating to my mental illness each week - I thought this was the type of relationship we are meant to have? Sort of like it's her job to be there and assist me to get to a certain goal. But apparently not. What else is there that we should be discussing in order to be having the proper relationship?

I am stumped, lol. I asked her but she replied with all this general stuff that didn't really relate to my question and just left me confused..lol.