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Originally Posted by granite1
i remember one time she was behind the desk talking to the receptionist when i showed up for my appointment.i actually made eye contact with her and smiled a few times and she completely ignored me and continued on and then walked right bye me and went and did something before she came back and got me for my appointment.wow that hurt and i thought it was a bit extreme
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My T was once behind the desk talking to the receptionists when I showed up. He stopped talking and smiled at me. I wanted to run away screaming. Something about him being in the wrong place was a GIANT trigger for me. I just made a face at him, I'm sure the receptionists thought I was nuts.
I was angry at him for the entire session and barely spoke.
We talked about it the next time and when he told me that some people may interpret his action as "Hey, he was waiting for me, how nice." That concept was SO foreign to me that I started laughing. I doubt I could produce that reaction even if I tried.
I don't even know what was wrong but I didn't want him in the wrong place. And I didn't want him listening to me checking in. I still feel this very
very strongly. To the point where I was envious of your story, granite.