Thank you all so much for replying... After reading all your posts I realized that right now I do feel like I need time for myself. I am feeling better day after day and I realize that everything happens for a reason. It's hard to stop seeing someone after you are with them 24/7 for 5 years and all of a sudden they are dating someone else, but I also understand that it happened for the best and maybe some day we'll be able to be friends again, once the wounds heal.
I wish each and every one of you a great 2012!