Thanks to everyone for the thoughts. Seems like most of you have the same thought, that I need to release him. I know that is true, I can't heal him...he has to find that himself. I'm just very scared of doing nothing, and getting a horrible phone call one day. I have tried going to a session with him, but he doesn't open up. His counsellor didn't really involve me, she just let me sit in on the conversation. I think the letter idea might be my best course of action. I've thought about seeing someone myself for this situation, but don't really have the extra cash to do so. So I find myself here. Which I'm thinking...I must be pretty desperate to just put my problems out in cyberspace... But I guess thats exactly where I'm at. desperate...
Is there anyone out there that has a simular situation and can help me see my way through this???
thanks to everyone for taking the time to share your thoughts.