First of all I'm sorry this is happening to you-I can feel the anger in your post-and hear that underneath that anger is intense hurt and pain...you were putting in work and preparing yourself and then to have him not notify you that you might not have the appointment you thought..I would be upset too! Can you call up there again and get a definite answer from them? I think until you know if you are going to have the appointment or not there wont' be any moving on from it...let us know what they say!?!