well if she gets a chance she does talk to me, like about 2 weeks ago i didnt hear from her all day and then around 9 at night she said that she was at the hospital all day with her grandfather who has cancer, that was one of the very very few times she tells me whats going on and she wanted to talk to me for comfort. and honestly dont agree with that, couples dont have to talk everyday, as the old saying goes "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and i believe that to be true. if you talk everyday you risk smothering each other. but thats just my opinion. no offense to you.