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Originally Posted by KazzaX
I think you're right Skysblue. T is talking about attachment probably. I think she doesn't realise that I am attached to her - if i wasn't I wouldnt be going back there each week. I am attached to her in that she is my therapist and I am her client and we need to work together to achieve a goal. We have a therepeautic attachment going on here and have done the whole time.
Should i ask her why she doesn't see this attachment? Or is that a rude question? I am not sure... seems it might be a bit rude but is there some other way I could word it so that its not considered rude.
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In your attachment do you find yourself working out issues with your T? Some of my fears have been stimulated by T's actions or words. I've been hurt by T and I've been scared of T and I've felt real panic when she's gone on vacation. All of these emotions have been directed at my T. But their foundation and their origins are from my history. They are dysfunctional reactions not based on reality.
So, have you experienced intense emotions towards your T? That's when the real work begins.