Apparantly both of you never thought of birth control? Seven years? That is a long time to be hanging on a weak branch of part time love. It sounds to me that this woman is only committed to herself and her own needs.

Leed is right, the welfare of the children are important. What is important for them is that their psychological needs are being met, they are being nurtured in positive ways. Is the man this woman married to a good father figure? I wonder about the woman as she clearly is only concerned about herself. Someone hopefully is truely tending to the children's needs. You know I hate this, this is all about adult issues and the children hang in a strange web that can cause so much damage for the rest of their lives.

This woman is dishonest with everyone in the picture your portraying, wouldn't doubt if she might have even other victims.

I think you should walk away, but keep tabs on the children, if she makes a mess down the road, you could be there. And yes, if you have medical issues these children's pediatrician should know, IMO.

Open Eyes