I have been trying hard to get myself into a routine of sorts. My son came to stay for 3 weeks leave from the Army, he went back yesterday (Monday). I got up today and all my jobs and getting showered and dressed have gone out of the window. I tried to pay all my bills and rent on line but it was such a mission to remember the passwords and other things. I hate this!! That stupid venlafaxine doesnt seem to help either, the only thing it has done is make me put on weight which makes me feel worse, vicious circle. Was depressed before but now I am fat and depressed.