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Originally Posted by KazzaX
So in relation to her herself.. no nothing really. She is neutral so I don't really have an opinion about her. Same with all the other T's ive had. They are there to help me so I can't really complain about that!  |
You wrote:
"One thing that she has said a number of times is that "we don't have a relationship" and we need to have one, and this is the reason we have made no progress in 4 months."
I could say that my T is 'neutral' too. But even so, I have reacted to things she's said to me. She is very kind and gentle and empathic but my issues have gotten triggered by her.
So when your T says you don't have a relationship with her, it might be that it is YOU who is seeing everything neutral. She might be wanting you to respond/react to her.
At the beginning of therapy my T said to me to tell her how I feel about anything, even about her. I had wondered what she could possibly mean by that statement. Why would I have any feelings associated with her? Well, bam! - it happened.