The person or side of me I try to get in touch with most in therapy is my ugly side. I figure that's who needs the exorcism the most. You know, the you that appears when you are trying to make a good impression (on one or many people), and then you say the stupidest, most embarrassing things. THAT goofy person. There is something wrong with her, she needs help, she has some sort of weird death wish, she ruins everything. I try to get HER in there as often as possible. The more you get her in therapy, the less she shows up in public. Little b!tch.