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Originally Posted by skysblue
So when your T says you don't have a relationship with her, it might be that it is YOU who is seeing everything neutral. She might be wanting you to respond/react to her.
At the beginning of therapy my T said to me to tell her how I feel about anything, even about her. I had wondered what she could possibly mean by that statement. Why would I have any feelings associated with her? Well, bam! - it happened.
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Yeah this could be it - maybe she wants me to have an opinion about her. That could be the crux of it.
That is a toughie. I'm not sure how to get feelings about a person. Well hate is easy but other than that...no idea. I sort of don't want to have an opinion on her because that will snowball and ruin the therapy. And this is my last opportunity for therapy so if I stuff it up, that's it.