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Originally Posted by TheBunnyWithin
I think "letting someone in" is about emotions. I told T things about myself for the first 5 months without feeling any real emotions - certainly not toward him. And then ... transference started to kick in. I fought it, and eventually decided to stop fighting and give in. A while after that, I decided to let him in, meaning inside the wall I put up to keep myself safe from other people.
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That's the general idea I thought too. Although I don't have any walls up, I tell her what's what and I tell her everything. I am an open book in therapy. But I am also a simple person so maybe she thinks there is more to me than there really is. i asked her before if that's what she thought and she just said "you know there's more" with a knowing smile.. lol. If there was more I'm sure that would be great but really, there's not.