Thanks everyone, I dont really know anything conclusive and it could be my imagination is running away from me. I live practically next door to his ex so it is hard, and i saw her in his car by accident and granted i did not see him and i dont know if she does go to meet him at night, but she does go somewhere and does leave the kids. Yes agreed you can break an AVO whenever you want because unless they report it there is nothing they can do. The first AVO that was in place was admended so he could see her and the kids, but once she called the police after he ran her off the road it became a little different. Plus by seeing her would breach his bail conditions and if caught i think this would be bad for him. plus why sneak around as you said he could just go to the house if that is what she wants as she is not going to report it, though that would mean making up an excuse to his parents to go into town, i dont know it does not make sence at all, as she drove past his place once i was at the park with friends and if she had been to see him why would she drive past his shed which is out of her way coming back from his parents.

I really do not know what is going on could be nothing and could be something, but either way it does not matter as im not apart of his life anymore.

I know for his actions he does recieve some sort of punishment and in fairness should have supervised visitations with his kids. I do not know anyone who truely would be able to forgive someone for the actions he has done to her and be able to look at them with love in the hearts and have a happy relationship, sometimes our emotions get the best of us and we make terrible choices as i have done. I have seen good in his heart, and bad.

it is just time to move on, and it is killing me inside as it is sad.