IceCreamKid I am glad you started it. When I saw it I thought WOW I did too! Seems like I kind of just went though the motions, but at least I did it. Even sent out cards,LATE oh well! When someone posted the winter solstice was over I immediately felt better. days getting longer really helps me. I am sorry missbelle you have to have bad memories come up in Dec. that would make it hard.