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I'm confused about the waiting 15 years thing related to being a sin....Aside from that, a sin is a sin...Are you sleeping together? That would be a sin if you are...I don't believe in putting a time limit/rushing things on huge life commitments such as marriage, buying a home etc etc...I think that you should move at your own pace and let the relationship go at it's own pace instead of rushing things...You're rushing...All based on a time table...It's ok to have a time limit on when you would like to be married or what is acceptable to you, but why rush it when it seems like you two still have things you need to work out and the finances aren't there yet? Don't you want to do things the right way? Everything else aside, why rush a marriage when you aren't financially ready? You two will be starting out on the wrong foot, in debt...Slow down..Things will work out...If this is the man for you, it doesn't matter if the marriage happens now or two years from now...He will be there...He has shown that he is with you no matter what...And another thing, this whole 15 year thing...Listen to this...There are people who live together (and not married) for a long time who have better and stronger relationships than people who are married...Again, why rush? I get the whole thing about being a christian...I understand that...And I understand the whole sin thing...But like I said, a sin is a sin...But make sure that this happens when the time is right....
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