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I see...This makes more sense now...You're conflicted...You want to do more so of the right thing by God, but you're torn between the fact that it may end up pushing him (bf) away...Understood...And what you have with him, I must say, it's special...There are not alot of people that can say what you said about their mate...I would say then, it doesn't hurt to revisit the conversation of marriage...You know what you want, he knows what he wants...And it's each other....Talk about it again and maybe you can discuss getting engaged and set a time frame for when you want to do it...You two will be starting your lives together and having school out of the way would be a good stress free way of starting out...Only you know what you want...Pray on it...Talk...Set a time frame...You really only have two options...Either wait, or do it now...There are pros and cons for both...I'll admit, this is a hard situation...God please forgive me for asking this but I have to...Well, I won't ask...I'll just say that there are "other things" that you can do to satisfy him sexually...Is that considered a sin? Not sure...Those "other things" in most cases, are good enough for men in replace of actual sex...Ask him...He probably will agree...Good luck with your decision...
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