That which is told in confidence should remain that way. It is best not to ever repeat information about another person, though sometimes perhaps t is unavoidable. When someone violates a confidence it leaves all kinds of bad feelings to get through. As women we often have the urge to talk about stuff, but I have found that it is often better to be a little careful, because people can often misinterpret what we say, depending on the space they are in at the time. Maybe that makes s less open, but it also protects us and others from unnecessary hurts