Abusers are miserable too, and wretched.

I don't think too much about what is fair. It doesn't get me very far.

Our childhoods are very important. We are born knowing nothing. We have to learn everything and when that learning is in a dysfunctional environment we have fixing to do. I had a lot to fix. I have a very rich life now, a part of that being from the examination I have had to do.

I'm glad that you are looking into therapy. You seem like you will progress quickly because of your ability to look at things.

Please keep us posted?