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Old Jan 04, 2012, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Claritytoo View Post
Is there any reason for me to introduce her to music? Will this help us or just confuse us? Is it better for her if I just accept her as she is? She is hiding right now because she wasn't able to understand what food or music was. I tried to tell her but she had no concept of either of them. I am giving her time to feel better. She became very upset and started to cry. She never cries. She is always happy and optimistic. She is aware of me and some of the others. But she also has no negative thoughts or emotions. She is very innocent. I don't ever remember being this innocent. I am worried about her. I want her to feel safe but I don't know what to do. Your insights help me. Thank you
thank you. I am glad my insights help you.

your questions - Im sorry but only you, your internal system and your treatment providers know whether there is any reason for you to things to your alters.

for some people it helps for others it doesnt.

whether it is better for you to accept her as is or not again is a personal choice that only you, your system and your treatment provider knows which is best. for some people acceptance as is works best for other making changes works best.

my suggestion - talk with your treatment provider. they can help you figure out where to go from here.