Clearly, I know that what he did was horrifying. He betrayed the client, his colleagues and his profession. I feel for the poor poor client so much. I also feel shocked by a professional who's regulated by the same board as him.

but... but... the little one in me is saying 'I want to live in T's house!!!!!'. I've always wanted to live in T's house. That's not new. And I've told her, and she's been containing and validating while being clear that it's just not a possibility. But if this girl was allowed to live in his house, then that changes everything.