I really feel for you right now, me and my friend are having a hard time right now because of something with my depression, but I have to say, please try not to push her. I cut, and I know that it's bad, but it really does offer relief from the pain. It's like if you smoke and somebody who thinks smoking is bad tells you to stop, and even thought it can be bad for you, you don't want to stop. And it's hard to. Cutting is very addictive, and a cause for a lot of emotional turmoil, so please don't try to pressure her to stop, because that is the last thing she wants to hear. And remind her that you are always there for her, I'm sure she probably cares about you more than you think. I hope you two can get this worked out, and that shell come around