Driving home I heard the song "Always a woman to me", by Billy Joel and it dawned on me.... These lyrics remind me of T and my therapy experience

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child, but she's always ... My T to me

She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth, but she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long it's free
Yeah, She steals like a thief, but she's always...My T to me

Silly I know but interesting....