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Originally Posted by Mylifeisdepressing
I really feel for you right now, me and my friend are having a hard time right now because of something with my depression, but I have to say, please try not to push her. I cut, and I know that it's bad, but it really does offer relief from the pain. It's like if you smoke and somebody who thinks smoking is bad tells you to stop, and even thought it can be bad for you, you don't want to stop. And it's hard to. Cutting is very addictive, and a cause for a lot of emotional turmoil, so please don't try to pressure her to stop, because that is the last thing she wants to hear. And remind her that you are always there for her, I'm sure she probably cares about you more than you think. I hope you two can get this worked out, and that shell come around  |
I understand how she feels. I feel "the same". I cut too. But it would be easier if she said "I dont want to quit" and then I would say "Okay". What can I do, after all? Nothing. But she says she wants to quit. At the same time, though, she keeps rejecting every suggestion I give her. What is that about? Pride? She wants to quit but alone? When I feel the urge to cut I try desperately to talk to someone. Anyone. I call a friend, I send an email and I ask for help. "Please stay with me and help me distract myself cuz I want to cut and shouldnt be alone" - and Im the one who doesnt want to stop!