Quote:
Originally Posted by lastyearisblank
Help me get a grip, PC!!! I don't want to be anyone's emo friend but I feel very sad right now, like my friend is rejecting me for my choice of boyfriend and job. How can I stop these thoughts?
|
You can't stop the thoughts, & they seem valid to me. I would tell her we need to talk, that things aren't okay btw you & need to be addressed. I'd go down them as you have here in your post ... print it out for her, if that works for you.
A 13-yr friendship is worth putting a lot of effort into keeping. I would this one. You will know whether you've reached a point when any more effort is wasted. If that point, sadly, is reached--cut bait. Fast.
I wish you the best.
