It sounds to me like she's not being a worthy friend to you. Her judgments regarding your job and your boyfriend are shallow and sexist. I think she expects you to judge her and her new guy and find out she failed again - that's why you weren't invited on the movie outing. I don't know why everything is a competition for some people. I had a friend who had me "beat" on EVERYTHING - as soon as I got a job close to home, I had to end our friendship, she became INCREDIBLY hostile towards me. I mean she had EVERYTHING - incl vacations on the French Riviera and we are in the US, so that is not that usual!