trust I have a problem with this. the way I am, a person has to earn my trust I don't give it freely. this would be a time thing I see how they are with others If I see something that does not allow me to trust them than that is it. I tell someone a certain thing all true I also watch to see what they do with that info. Not much help but we need someone to trust so I for one have to try. and like you my passed stops me sometimes. I hope you can trust but I tend to keep myself safe. only let out at first what I want to. I hope you find something helpful in this.