Don't go there wi.
It was not your fault.
If not you, then who?
If not now, when?
It's not you, it's not the site, it's that your personal space was violated by a member and we are all feeling the trickle down effect.
We're all a bit nervous that it will happen to one of us.
That we might tick someone off and the next thing you know our personal info is being used against us.
That's what is sad.
You should be holding your head high over the way you've handled yourself through all this. Remarkable.