I find your situation challenging. I have been in a tangle with someone and felt I knew, I
mean knew I was right, and one day after two months had an idea pop in my mind
and be able to see it from some other point of view, realizing that I was being
weird, a jerk or a tool. Then again, I have felt certain I was in the wrong about
something and through years of growth came to view things from another side,
realizing how abused and cheated I had been and my actions had really been the
only reasonable thing to do.
I am not saying you are right or wrong; I am saying, situations can be malluble where
you can see it from more than one or two or even only three points of view. and
your certainty about right and wrong today, may in future days be totally
ridiculous.
You are doing the right thing in seeking opinions, it gives you a chance to
'metaphorically and mentally' walk around what really happened and what you
perceived happened. (also what others perceived happened)

"S"