thank you john for being so upfront with the details of this incident.....i know that this information will come as quite a shock to members here for many reasons...one being that many of us put alot of trust in this member but i think that all of us who supported her in her greatest time of need will be most shaken......i think we have all learned a good lesson from this about trust.....we will all feel the need to vent about this and i hope that you will be open to letting members do so.....then hopefully with some new ways to insure our privacy a little better put into action we can all put this behind us and get back to doing what this site is all about.....supporting others and relying on the help of others......thank you once again john....julia