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Old Jan 05, 2012, 03:42 PM
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what if I treated MY healing with that same gentleness? I don't get mad at my kids...what if I don't get mad at myself? And just THAT tiny shift...the thought that I could get myself a blanket and some tea instead of working harder and getting down on myself...was a step in the right direction. A step away from "I'm bad".
Yes! This makes the work so much easier!! Being nice to ourselves requires completing inner child work I think.
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