Oh, I forgot something. I would highly recommend the Love Languages books, if you haven't already read them. It helped me so much to be able to see that "gift giving" is not my husband's love language. He's much more of a words of affirmation and physical touch type of guy. It helped me learn to make him feel loved his way, and understand why he doesn't think to love me in mine. Everyone tries to love their significant other the way they want to be loved.