I usually don't think about what I look like because when I do it makes me self conscious. When I get a glimpse in the mirror or a photo my image seems inconsistent with what I think I look like. It is not a comfortable feeling. I was made fun of so often in school about my looks that I just wanted to disappear and felt ugly because of it.

My t is thin and I don't think she's ever had a weight problem. I lost 30 lbs 3 years ago and have kept most of it off. Having cancer gave me a wake up call on managing my health. T knows I lost that weight but didn't meet me until last year. She knows I exercise a lot. Maybe we should talk about it....thanks for starting this thread.