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Originally Posted by rainbow8
emptyspace: Sorry but you're wrong this time. I already have my T's approval. I wish she would agree that I look bad; she's always honest with me. If I send her the photos I hate, I would be upset if she didn't agree with me, at least to say they are unflattering. Then I can discuss why it bothers me so much to look that way. This issue is not about wanting something from my T. It's about my feelings about the way I look and not wanting to look like that!
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You want your T to say you are ugly and fat?
You want her to be disgusted by you?
Think about this:
In some pictures you think you look fine. In some pictures, you hate and think you look bad. So, you have a range of opinions regarding you in pictures.
But if your T looks at all your pictures (good and bad) and says all positive things, are you wrong? or is she lying?
The reality is everyone looks bad in some pictures. But if your T never says the reality, what does that mean?