hey guys I have been wondering how I can change the way I react and feel in a confrontation. not a physical confrontation like a verbal one. I tend to get embarrassed and like get a bit snarky my eyes water and my face goes red I want to be able to be laid back, relaxed not take it personally I want to be able to act like the mentalist as an example. how do I make myself not care what outcome comes from a confrontation. I think if I can change this part of my life I will have a lot less worry.

thanks, Jake.