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Originally Posted by MarcyCJ
Yes, even though I know that it is not the outside that counts, it is a well known fact that men tend to look at the outside first and then determine wether the person is worth it or not.
Or maybe that is just where I live.
I have many guy friends, and they are one of the nicest people I know but I have yet to know any guy that hasn't determined getting to know a girl based on her appearance. Usually some will say (when we hang out and they start talking about dates) "yeah she is really nice, but..." and then say something about that girls appearance and how that ruins it for them.
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Hi. Have you thought of sharing your concerns with the most sensitive of your men friends and asking him what he thinks you could do to be more attractive to men? I wanted to share this with you, too: this is only my opinion, but it is a sincere one. There is a world famous supermodel who has been famous maybe the last 20 years, maybe more. She still has a nice athletic figure. But here is what I don't get. I never thought she had the most fantastic figure, and I thought she had a plain face. I would hear people (she was particularly popular with men) rave about how gorgeous she was and I'd think "are they kidding?!?!?!?!?!" She does have an engaging smile and an attitude of friendliness. But I have seen a lot of women more beautiful and with better figures.