both...ah dads...they hold the ultimate power..over kids, over tiny animals...similar crap happened in my house too..

just to remind you that as a kid you are small & they are not & look what happens to those that are weak can happen to you & in a sick way..ain't it fun?

no dad...it wasn't...(altho my brother thought it was..but that's a whole nudder thread...)

i feel your pain...sorry for both of us...the good thing is that you realized it was wrong & don't hurt the weak. you could have swayed to the other side but didn't so his method of teaching was a failure...for that be proud...